Monday 9 April 2012

why do people change

Now  a days people think that relationships should be easy. We pay to go to college or university but the professor doesn't guarantee that we will pass the course, that is up to us and whether we want it bad enough or not. In life if you want something bad enough you will make that happen, not your parents or friends but YOU..
I had many friends, i thought were true friends but that surely changed when i found out they couldn't keep my business personal to themselves. The way i look at it if you want something left a secret than don't tell anyone, best way to keep things is to keep them to YOURSELF. I see many people talking how they are so in love, but yet they are talking shit behind their partners back or running around, now the question is " Is that what you call LOVE". To be that is wanting your cake and be able to eat it too.   
Why now a days is it so hard to be happy, why do people insist of making your life hell. I can tell you why cause friends don't want to see you happy. People tend to talk shit about you cause they are usually jealous of the happiness you have, and they want to see what it takes to ruin it. Most people give into these people, at the end of the day they don't care if your happy, sad, mad, die or alive they just want to steal your man and making everything you care about fall in front of you. 
I also figured out that girls tend to talk shit about your man because they tend to like him and doesn't want to see him happy. Guess what bitches if he wanted you than he would of been with you and not another girl.


basically what i am saying is if your in love with someone don't let people tell you different make your relationship work, if you don't you might live the rest of your thinking WHAT IF...  That isn't the way to live either always thinking WHAT IF. 
If he loves you he will stay by you no matter what life brings your way..